Umdlalo wekhadi Lomqondo uhlasele umphakathi wamageyimu, wethula indlela entsha yokudlala ngokubambisana ephonsela abadlali inselelo ngezindlela ezintsha nezijabulisayo. Ngokungafani nemidlalo yamakhadi evamile evamise ukuxabanisa abadlali, Ingqondo idinga ukuthi abadlali basebenzisane ngaphandle kokukhuluma, esikhundleni salokho bathembele ekwazisweni kanye nomuzwa ojulile wesikhathi esihlangene. Lo mdlalo omusha awuhlinzeki nje ngamahora okuzijabulisa kodwa futhi ukhuthaza umuzwa oqinile wokuxhumana nokusebenzisana phakathi kwabadlali.
Kungani Ingqondo Igqama
Emgogodleni wayo, Ingqondo ilula ngendlela emangalisayo kodwa iyinkimbinkimbi ngokungapheli. Abadlali kufanele bavumelanise izenzo zabo, badlale amakhadi avela ezandleni zabo ngokulandelana okukhuphukayo ngaphandle kokuxhumana ngamazwi. Lesi sisekelo singase sibonakale siqondile, kodwa sethula isendlalelo esijabulisayo samasu nesayikholoji eheha abadlali umdlalo nomdlalo.
Izici Eziyinhloko:
- Umdlalo Wegeyimu Wokubambisana: Ukusuka okuqabulayo kumamodeli aqhudelanayo.
- Ukuxhumana Okunembile: Abadlali kufanele bathembele kuzimpawu ezingakhulumi.
- Imithetho Elula, Isu Elijulile: Kulula ukufunda, kuyinselele ukuyiqonda.
- Okuhlanganisiwe: Ifanele abadlali abangu-2-4, iheha abaqalayo nomakadebona.
Idlalwa Kanjani Ingqondo
Imithetho yeThe Mind ilula ngokukhohlisayo, iyenza ifinyeleleke kubadlali abaningi abahlukahlukene. Umdlali ngamunye uthola isandla samakhadi anenombolo 1-100, futhi iqembu kufanele lidlale lawa makhadi ngokulandelana okukhuphukayo esitakini esiphakathi kwetafula. Ukubanjwa? Akukho ukukhuluma, ukusayina, noma izinombolo ezivezayo. Impumelelo incike ekufundeni ozakwethu nasekubekeni isikhathi imidlalo yakho kahle.
Isakhiwo sokudlala okuyisisekelo:
- Shova futhi uthengise amakhadi.
- Ngokuhlangene nquma ukuthi uzowadlala nini amakhadi.
- Qedela wonke amazinga ukuze uwine.
Amasu Okuwina Ingqondo
Nakuba Ingqondo imayelana nokuzwisisa, amasu amaningana angasiza ukwandisa amathuba omdlalo ophumelelayo. Ukufunda ‘ukuzizwa’ uma sekuyithuba lakho nokunaka ukuhamba kancane komdlalo kungamakhono abalulekile. Ukwengeza, abadlali bangakha izivumelwano ezithulile noma amasu ngaphambi kokuthi umdlalo uqale ukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwabo okungasho lutho.
Amathiphu ochwepheshe:
- Bhekisisa ozakwenu beqembu eduze.
- Prakthiza ukubekezela; ukujaha kungaholela emaphutheni.
- Qonda ukuthi yimaphi amakhadi angakadlalwa.
Umthelela Wenhlalakahle Wengqondo
Ingqondo yenza okungaphezu nje kokujabulisa; kwakha amabhuloho phakathi kwabantu. Ngokuphoqa abadlali ukuthi baxhumane ngaphandle kwamagama, kudala uhlobo oluhlukile lokuzwana. Abadlali bafunda ukuthemba umuzwa wemvelo nokuqonda komunye nomunye, ngokuvamile okuholela ezikhathini zokuxhumana okujulile kanye nokunqoba okujabulisayo okugujwa ngazwi linye.
Imicabango yokugcina:
Enkathini lapho ukuzijabulisa kwedijithali kuvame ukuhlukaniswa, igeyimu yekhadi lengqondo ivela njengesibani sokudlala ngokubambisana nokuzwakalayo. Ubulula bayo, kuhlanganiswe nokujula kokusebenzelana ekudingayo, kuyenza ibe isengezo esivelele kunoma yimuphi ubusuku begeyimu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumdlali wegeyimu ongumakad’ ebona ofuna inselele entsha noma umdlali ovamile olangazelela ukuxhumana nabangane nomndeni ngezinga elijulile, Ingqondo inikeza okuhlangenwe nakho okungenakulibaleka okweqa imingcele evamile yemidlalo yamakhadi.
